A keynote for leaders, teams, and women navigating the seasons that don't fit on a project plan.
Most people will tell your audience to sit with it. Therese stands next to them while they walk through it.
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WORD
NERD.
Your organization might be caught in an old resilience trap. Because the trap is good at looking like something else.
“It’s just a busy season.”
↳ It’s been three years. A busy season has an end you can point to. This doesn’t. Calling it temporary is how the trap keeps its hold.
Meanwhile you're people dial back.
“We already did the resilience training.”
↳ The room showed up. The room nodded. Nothing moved. Most resilience training still teaches the version researchers are now retiring. Endure, push through. The very reflex that deepens the burnout.
Meanwhile, your innovators have gone quiet.
“My steady ones are fine.”
↳ Your most reliable people are the ones you’ve stopped checking on because they never drop the ball. That’s not proof they’re okay. That’s the trap doing its best work on your best person.
Meanwhile, communication has become short, blunt, and strained.
“No one’s complaining.”
↳ The honest conversations aren’t happening in the room. They’re happening in the parking lot afterward. Quiet isn’t the same as fine.
Meanwhile, when you really look in their faces, excitement is gone.
“We’ll deal with it once things settle.”
↳ You’re waiting to feel ready. Something in you already knows you won’t and the trap is counting on exactly that.
Meanwhile, their body language reveals the honest truth. Your people feel like any idea they might offer will get shot down, ignored, or sidelined for some new system, some new KPI, some new project push that promises to fix everything.
Different rooms. Different sentences. Same trap.
The role changes — Good Employee, Good Manager, Good Caregiver — and the script stays the same: you don’t really have a choice here. That’s the lie at the center of The Good Trap.
She won’t hand your people a five-step framework to file away, unopened. She names the trap, and then she stands next to them while they take the one next imperfect step.
A fumble forward is the first evidence of the new healthy resilience. Choice.
“Being ready and feeling ready are not the same thing
The Good Trap counts on you confusing the two.”
Therese is the person you call when you suspect your people still feel worn down and stuck because of old toxic resilience.
The five-step frameworks got filed away, unopened.
You call Therese because you know if something doesn't change, you'll lose your best people.
You call Therese, because you want your people to experience healthy recovery, healthy creativity, and a reconnection to their own sense of choice.
Fifteen years noticing which words make people unfreeze.
And which ones let them off the hook too easy. Therese has spent a career at the seam of language, leadership, and the seasons that don't fit on a project plan — helping teams move when the ground won't hold still.
Her Story →Claire, in row 30, is skeptical
No pitch deck. No pressure. Just a conversation about what your people are actually carrying.
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